Who’s to blame and what to do: Condom stuck inside
Something went wrong: sex is over and you can’t find a condom? Yes, there he was! Now, no. And there is only one place you haven’t visited yet.
If you stumbled upon this article while hysterically typing in the request “what to do if a condom is stuck,” here’s our first and foremost advice – breathe out.
Seriously, take it easy
Not only in order not to get nervous once again, but also so that the muscles of the vagina, which are now in a panic, can also relax. If you’re tense, your vagina or anus has contracted, making it difficult for the condom to come out.
If you’ve already tried to pull it out and failed, just forget about the condom for a while. Take a break. You don’t have to keep it there for a long time, but the fact that the condom stays in you for half an hour will not change anything. Until then, make good use of this time and relax.
If the condom gets stuck in the anus and you can’t pull it out for a few minutes, it’s best to go to a specialist right away.
Put it down on all fours or squat down and see if you can pull it out with your fingertips. Before doing this, trim your nails and wash your hands. First, insert one finger into the anus or vagina, pressing down trying to clamp the condom between the finger and the vaginal wall. If it doesn’t work with one finger, try with two fingers.
The most important thing is no foreign objects (so that it does not turn out that, besides the condom, something else is stuck there): no tweezers, no tweezers, no scissors.
Lie down and push
If you can’t reach the condom and you can barely feel the tip, change your position. Lie on your back, raise your hips – maybe thanks to this, the condom will move, and you will be able to get it.
If this does not work out (in the literal sense of the word), then squat down and push. Yes, yes, you can easily push the condom out with the muscles of the vagina.
Ask for a partner
If you can’t do it yourself, ask someone to look at the situation “from a different angle.” In Sex and the City, Carrie somehow got a tampon stuck inside, and Samantha, of course, came to the rescue.
Emergency situations require emergency measures, and there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of – situations are different. If you understand that neither you nor your partner can pull out the condom, go to the gynaecologist. Do not be afraid and do not be shy.
Even if you managed to get a condom on your own, firstly, carefully examine it and make sure that it does not break and its pieces are not left inside you. Secondly, after a while, it is still worth visiting a doctor and getting tested for infection. Thirdly, most likely, this happened due to the fact that you chose the wrong size of the condom (the lover flattered himself), and it turned out to be too large.